Thoughtful Thursdays

Musings on faith, family, & fiction

2025 Word of the Year – Choose (and Chosen)
Are you looking for a post about how to choose a Word of the Year? If so, then you'll want to read this post: How to Choose an Intentional Word of the Year. This post is about my Word of the Year for 2025, which is CHOOSE. If you're interested in why I chose choose...
How to Choose an Intentional Word of the Year (Repost and Updated)
For well over a decade, I’ve been doing the “word of the year” thing. In 2021, my word was “Intentional,” and a funny thing happened…I was getting a lot of hits on that post. But not (sadly) because people were so interested in my word. No…people were interested in...
2024 Word of the Year Reflection – (Re)Discover
I love to take the last Thursday of the year to reflect on the Word of the Year I'd chosen and evaluate how I did with it. Of course, 2024 did not go how I planned, LOL. So when I pulled up my post from January 1, where I talked about what I hoped to (RE)Discover, I...
A Super-Hero Christmas
A year ago, I certainly wouldn't have dreamed that Christmas 2024 would see me at the Cancer Institute, getting radiation therapy. For that matter, even when I was diagnosed back in April, I fully expected to be done with all treatment by now. But...no. LOL. The way...

Though a novelist by trade, one of the trademarks of my books is the spiritual depth and exploration I includes as my characters work through what it really means to walk out their faith. Faith, in fact, is one of the things I like to ponder most. In these once-a-week articles, I gets thoughtful at the crossroads of faith, family, and fiction.

Thoughtful About . . . Our God Who Art in Outer Space

Thoughtful About . . . Our God Who Art in Outer Space

For some reason that I can't quite explain, 4-year-old Rowyn has decided that Heaven = Outer Space. There is no hesitation in his mind. When he talks about going to Outer Space, it's to drop in on God and say, "Hello." Preferably in a rocket. That, he says, is where...

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Thoughtful About . . . Insecurity and Encouragement

Thoughtful About . . . Insecurity and Encouragement

Lay thy sweet hand in mine and trust in me by Edmund Blair Leighton Sometimes I think the world inside my head is a very strange place. Full of double-think and a pendulum of balance I knowingly employ to keep myself cheerful. A fair amount of rationalization when it...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Time Between

Thoughtful About . . . The Time Between

Waiting by Edmund Blair Leighton My kids are big on holidays (so unusual for a child, I know, LOL). The day after Christmas, they asked, "What holiday's next?" And the same question came on January 2. Several times we've played the Holiday Hop game, naming which comes...

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Thoughtful About . . . Needed Prayers

Thoughtful About . . . Needed Prayers

Little Girl in a Blue Armchair by Mary Cassatt, 1878 Though this isn't exactly the insightful post I'd hoped to start the new year with, it's a necessary one. Yesterday I got a call from one of the ladies in my Bible study group. We have a couples group that meets...

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Thoughtful About . . . Eagerness

Thoughtful About . . . Eagerness

This time of year, if you want a study in eagerness, all you have to do is take a look at children. Okay, if mine are the example, then looking at them anytime will give you a study in eagerness. =) At times, all that anticipatory energy can be exhausting. But...

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Thoughtful About . . . Gifts

Thoughtful About . . . Gifts

I'm happy to say that this year (as opposed to most years), I'm nearly done my Christmas shopping already. I have a few things yet to pick up, but all the tricky ones are handled. I'm feeling on top of things there. Mostly. 😉 And as I talk with my kiddos about the...

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Thoughtful About . . . Looking

Thoughtful About . . . Looking

The Prayer by William-Adolphe Bouguereau  Two weeks ago I brought up callings. And in the responses I got, I realized that I probably should have used different terminology, because while what I've been thinking about does encompass that lofty idea of "my...

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Thoughtful About . . . Our Callings

Thoughtful About . . . Our Callings

Christus bei Maria und Martha by Allessandro Allori, 1605 What's your calling? A few simple words, but a whole world of meaning, isn't it? To what has the Lord called you? It doesn't have to be something grand. He could have called you to accounting. To farming. He...

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Thoughtful About . . . Taking Responsibility

Thoughtful About . . . Taking Responsibility

Ironing Women by Ivana Kobilca It's so easy to point fingers, isn't it? From something as small as "Look what you made me do!" to the bigger "Don't blame me--I voted for the other guy." This is a problem I've recognized in myself for years--not so much in politics,...

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Thoughtful About . . . Covered by Love

Thoughtful About . . . Covered by Love

Whisperings of Love by William-Adolphe Bouguereau, 1889 8 And above all things have fervent love for one another,for “love will cover a multitude of sins.”~I Peter 4:8 I just read these words in my daily reading time and they struck quite a chord.  Perhaps...

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Thoughtful About . . . Birthdays and Last Chapters

Thoughtful About . . . Birthdays and Last Chapters

My little girl just turned 7 on Tuesday, and we had her party on Sunday. Both were pretty awesome days, even if it is a little hard to believe that my baby is SEVEN. How did that happen??? 😉 And so, because today I'm hoping to finish up Whispers from the Shadows so...

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Thoughtful About . . . Nothing Less

Thoughtful About . . . Nothing Less

Par-tay! (Also known as Luncheon of the Boating Party by Renoir, of course) Last week in church, in the course of our conversation in class time, one fella said something that struck me as so very true: God doesn't want to bless us a little--He wants to bless us...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Busy Month

Thoughtful About . . . The Busy Month

You know how some people never set goals for December because it's so busy with Christmas stuff? That's how my October has become. First weekend is Octoberfest at my family's farm, second weekend is our awesome family reunion, third weekend is my girl-o's birthday,...

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Thoughtful About . . . Blessings

Thoughtful About . . . Blessings

Degas's The Millinery Shop - don't ask me what this has to do with my topic today, LOL. I guess hats are a blessing? Yesterday as I emailed my best friend, I shared with her a little sermon I've been preaching to myself all week. The subject? Blessings--and how we're...

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Thoughtful About . . . Expectations

Thoughtful About . . . Expectations

High Expectations by Arthur John Elsley Tricky things, aren't they? Expectations. On the one hand, we're told to expect great things, especially from God. On the other hand, they can lead to disappointment. Take, for example, these two opposite quotes: I don't have...

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Thoughtful About . . . Serving Others

Thoughtful About . . . Serving Others

At the beginning of August, I blogged about the trip we took to Texas and how it opened the door for us to start teaching our kids about volunteering and helping others wherever they see a need. Well, when we got home we talked to our church about starting a monthly...

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Thoughtful About . . . Not Ourselves

Thoughtful About . . . Not Ourselves

7 But we were gentle among you, just as a nursing mother cherishes her own children. 8 So, affectionately longing for you, we were well pleased to impart to you not only the gospel of God, but also our own lives, because you had become dear to us. ~ I...

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Thoughtful About . . . Redeeming the Days

Thoughtful About . . . Redeeming the Days

8 For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light 9 (for the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), 10 finding out what is acceptable to the Lord. 11 And have no fellowship with...

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Thoughtful About . . . Back to School!

Thoughtful About . . . Back to School!

I had a nice, insightful post planned for today. Filled with brilliance (ahem) and thought and pondering a scripture that jumped out at me. I was just beginning to delve into the contemplation required for it when an adorable little face appeared beside mine....

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Thoughtful About . . . Books and Smiles

Thoughtful About . . . Books and Smiles

First off, I'm guest-blogging today with Laurie Alice Eakes, talking a bit about the fun history of historic Annapolis, and giving away a copy of Love Finds You in Annapolis, Maryland. Hop on over and leave a comment for a chance to win!...

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Thoughtful About . . . Stalled Dreams

Thoughtful About . . . Stalled Dreams

A Favor by Edmund Blair Leighton I've always liked August. It holds my birthday, after all, and has traditionally had lots of other fun things going on. But on the other hand, it's the end of summer. The start of school. For any household with kids, August signals a...

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Thoughtful About . . . Lessons

Thoughtful About . . . Lessons

When I came up with the idea of the Culper Ring Series, I didn't have any great themes in mind. I just liked the premise, and soon got hooked on the characters. The plots were dictated largely by history. And I was rather surprised to release the themes ended up...

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Thoughtful About . . . What You Put In

Thoughtful About . . . What You Put In

My sister recently talked me into joining her zumba class, something I've resisted when she mentioned it months ago. Why? Because I prefer my humiliation to be private, and exercising and I have a love-hate relationship that's heavier on hate than love, LOL. But I...

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Thoughtful About . . . My Eyes on the Prize

It's a saying pretty much everyone understands, I'd think. "Keep your eyes on the prize." Keep your focus on the thing you're aiming at. The finish line. The trophy. The certificate of achievement. The check-off of your Bucket List. Keep going. Keep reaching. Keep...

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Thoughtful About . . . Ups and Downs

I've had a hectic few weeks, and in some ways it's been a real roller coaster ride. I got good news just to have it nullified two days later. I've had to come to grips with a few things, put some things aside for a while--and as someone who always hopes and works for...

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Thoughtful About . . . Ring of Secrets

Thoughtful About . . . Ring of Secrets

I got it! I got it! My cover for Ring of Secrets has arrived in a share-able version, so naturally today must be spent in sharing (assuming you haven't already seen it on Facebook). Exciting!!! Also exciting is that you can pre-order them on Amazon (please "like" the...

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Thoughtful About . . . Fire

With the fires raging in Colorado, this is a topic on a lot of minds this week. As someone who used to have a major phobia of fire, wildfires are a terrifying thing to me, and my prayers go out to all those affected, both residents and the brave men and women fighting...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Spirit

The other day I was reading Romans 8 . . . and coming to the conclusion that it's one of my favorite chapters in the Bible. I know I've read it many times before, but it just hit me how much is in this one. And how amazing it is that we get to apply it to our lives. I...

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Thoughtful About . . . Rejection

 Now hope does not disappoint,because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.  ~Romans 5:5 Rejection. In the writing industry it's something we all face, and so it's something that I've written about before....

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Thoughtful About . . . When You’re Called

Thoughtful About . . . When You’re Called

The advent of summer vacation means that, even though I'd love to be out with my parasol promenading through nature a la the Claude Monet painting here, I'm glued even more to my computer. Trying, trying to get caught up on writing, editing, and design. Trying to get...

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Thoughtful About . . . Summer Goals

Thoughtful About . . . Summer Goals

As summer approaches and is in effect here for many of us in terms of school and whatnot, I've noticed something. Most writers with kids assume they'll get less done during the summer, with their bundles of energy underfoot. And I can see where this would be the case....

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Thoughtful About…For Them

Thoughtful About…For Them

On Sunday, several families in our home school group got together to celebrate our wee ones' graduation from kindergarten. My friend Paige put together an amazing ceremony and party, and it was a wonderful, heart-warming time. (Though Xoë was doing a combination of...

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Thoughtful About . . . Seeking Us

Ever pause to think about how God goes out of His way for us? It's really kind of baffling--and something I think a lot of us tend to ignore. I've been reading Acts (in two different ways--both in my daily reading and in my daughter's school reading), and that's been...

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Thoughtful About . . . Where Are We Now?

Yesterday as my best friend Stephanie Morrill and I were chatting about my schedule, I earned a "Whoa! You're making my head spin. Can you believe it wasn't that long ago that you were like, 'I need direction! I have no idea what to work on next!'?" Definitely not a...

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Thoughtful About . . . Blinders

Blinders--we all wear them. Those things that keep us from seeing things, or at least from seeing them clearly. With horses, they're used to keep the animals on track, to keep them from getting distracted. But for us? Hmm . . . I often find myself with blinders in...

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Thoughtful About . . . Those Twisty Paths

Last night the semi-finalists of the Genesis Contest (for unpublished authors) were announced. On Monday, the nominees for the Christy (Christian Fiction's most prestigious award) went public. And as award season gets into full swing, I imagine we'll see many more...

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Thoughtful About . . . Design

Thoughtful About . . . Design

As long as I've been writing, I've been drawing. Back in primary school, whenever I wrote a story I'd illustrate it. Princesses and bunnies and unicorns, singing flowers . . . yep. The norm. 😉 When I started on novels in middle school, I always tried to draw my...

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Thoughtful About . . . Dread of the Cross

We're doing a study of the cross at church, and last week as we discussed how Jesus knew all his life where he was headed, knew that he was to be the Servant talked about in Isaiah 53, the one that would justify the world. He knew, always knew, that he would have to...

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Thoughtful About . . . Par-tay!

Thoughtful About . . . Par-tay!

"An original writer is not one who imitates nobody, but one whom nobody can imitate." ~ Francois Rene Chateaubriand Last Friday my friends and family surprised me with a celebration for me and my books, and it was such a fun party, filled with such beautiful elements,...

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Thoughtful About . . . This Jesus Fellow

In both my personal Bible reading and what I do with Xoe for her home school, I've been immersed in the Gospels lately. And of course, it's no surprise that, being in the Lenten season, our studies at church have centered around Him too. But the more I read, the more...

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Thoughtful About . . . Thunder in the Brain

As you can undoubtedly tell if you've read my last couple Remember When posts, I'm currently in one of my favorite places to be--brainstorming mode. I've finished one book, have all but wrapped up my edits on the one due in a few weeks. And ready to get down to...

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Thoughtful About . . . Calming the Storm

Allow me to draw your attention to Mark 4:37-41: 37 And a great windstorm arose, and the waves beat into the boat,  so that it was already filling.  38 But He was in the stern,  asleep on a pillow. And they awoke Him and said to Him, ...

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Thoughtful About . . . A Prayer for You

Dear Lord, Thank you so much for all you are. Thank you for hands big enough to craft a universe and small enough to cradle our hearts. Thank you, Father, for the comfort in your invisible touch and the assurances you've given us because you know we need them. You are...

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Thoughtful About . . . Soon

I tried to think of a blog post for today, I really did. But you see, every time I turned my mind over to pondering, it defaulted to pondering the last three chapters of my work-in-progress. I'm mere days away from finishing it and in a total book haze. So my...

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Thoughtful About . . . The End

I should probably have saved this topic for two weeks from now, when, if all goes well, I'll reach the end of my manuscript. But I'd probably forget by then, so . . . 😉 I'm an optimist. I can find hope in anything. That's probably why I love stories of romance--you...

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Thoughtful About . . . Word Fall

In case anyone missed my Seekerville post yesterday, I thought I'd share it here today. In case you, um, didn't just want to go over there and read yesterday's post . . . okay, so I'm in the middle a BIG reunion scene in my manuscript and don't want to take time away...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Other Side of the Coin

Thoughtful About . . . The Other Side of the Coin

Monday and Tuesday of this week, I had the joy of attending the Christian Product Expo in Lancaster, PA. I went with CAN (Christian Authors Network), who was hosting the breakfast on Tuesday. Each author sat at a different table so we could chat with the retailers....

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Thoughtful About . . . Small Miracles

Another thoughtful day as a result of our home school reading. =) This week we saw Elisha take over for Elijah, and during his stay with all the young prophets-in-training, we got to a story I remembered from when I was a kid but forgot the context of. So one day,...

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Thoughtful About . . . Waiting on Promises

Yesterday in our homeschool Bible reading, we got to one of the best-known stories of Elijah--where he challenged the 450 priests of Baal to an alter competition. (Okay, my words, not theirs, LOL.) You remember it, I'm sure. The priests of Baal build their alter, put...

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Thoughtful About . . . Thirsting and Savoring

Last year when I prayed for a word from the Lord to encompass my year, I received it in a thunderbolt of realization. A chill up the spine, a near overwhelm of feeling and knowledge. I was waiting for that again this year . . . but since when does the Lord do what we...

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