Thoughtful Thursdays

Musings on faith, family, & fiction

Who Have You Invited?
Who—or what—fuels you in your work, your beliefs, your mission? My husband subscribes to the blog of Seth Godin, a leading marketer who always has such wonderful insights...not only as to how to get the work of our hands and hearts before the world, but which can...
Come, Holy Spirit
My parish has three churches, each with a different history. There's St. Mary's, which was the Italian church. St. Patrick's, which was (surprise, surprise, LOL) the Irish church. And Sts. Peter and Paul, which was the German church. I imagine back in the day, one...
The Me I See
The image I see when I look in the mirror has only rarely matched the image I carry of myself in my mind. I imagine we're all like that. There are those who see fat or skinny when the world disagrees with them. There are those see young or old, fit or flabby, pretty...
Royally Inspired Writing Contest!
Royally Inspired Tournament The First Annual WhiteCrown Princess Moments Contest   Hear ye, hear ye! You’re invited to don your writer’s armor and prove your mettle in a battle to the death…er…publication!  What Is the Royally Inspired Tournament? In this...

Though a novelist by trade, one of the trademarks of my books is the spiritual depth and exploration I includes as my characters work through what it really means to walk out their faith. Faith, in fact, is one of the things I like to ponder most. In these once-a-week articles, I gets thoughtful at the crossroads of faith, family, and fiction.

Thoughtful About . . . Soul-Tidying

Thoughtful About . . . Soul-Tidying

I'm not the world's best housekeeper. This is no secret--I mean, I put it right in my official bio. 😉 Yes, "pretending my house will clean itself" is part of my charming naivete. Ahem. Or at the very least, keeping everything put in its proper place isn't my priority....

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Thoughtful About . . . The Revealer of Secrets

Thoughtful About . . . The Revealer of Secrets

“Blessed be the name of God forever and ever, For wisdom and might are His. 21 And He changes the times and the seasons; He removes kings and raises up kings; He gives wisdom to the wise And knowledge to those who have understanding. 22 He reveals deep and...

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Thoughtful About . . . Looking to the Rock

Thoughtful About . . . Looking to the Rock

We all know the story of Moses bringing water from the rock. We know it not only because it was another in a long line of miracles, but because it's the one that he did wrong--the one that made God say Moses wouldn't be allowed to enter the promised land. In case it's...

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Thoughtful about . . . Different Rooms, Same House

Thoughtful about . . . Different Rooms, Same House

I'm in the midst of reading Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis . . . something I can't believe I've never read before. And something I've already been nodding along with so much it's a wonder my head hasn't come loose. 😉 Given that the release of The Number of Love has...

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Thoughtful About . . . Cast Down

Thoughtful About . . . Cast Down

Over the weekend, a summer storm raged. The wind blew, the rain lashed down, lightning pierced the sky. Monday morning, I went for my usual morning jog, and I saw something that made me pause. Two birds' nests, blown out of the trees and deposited on different parts...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Truth of Us

Thoughtful About . . . The Truth of Us

Pride. It's something I've struggled with a lot over the years. Something I'm continually learning to keep in check. Something I've needed to learn to master so that it's not master of me. Something I've therefore given a lot of thought to and explored in my writing...

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Thoughtful About . . . Taking the Long Way

Thoughtful About . . . Taking the Long Way

Do you ever stop to wonder how different our lives might look if, instead of searching for the most expedient way, we looked for the most meaningful? The word shortcut has existed in English since the 1500s...and I'm sure the idea of it has been around long before...

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Thoughtful About . . . Community

Thoughtful About . . . Community

Last week I talked a bit about how God often speaks to me through what I call "themes"--ideas that keep coming at me over and over, from different directions. The one I focused on last week was "Being Complete." But another topic has been popping up all around me too....

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Thoughtful About . . . Being Complete

Thoughtful About . . . Being Complete

God speaks to us in a lot of ways. For me, He often speaks in what I call themes. Ideas that keep popping up over and over, in a variety of places, coming from all sorts of people. When I notice these recurring themes, I know it's time to pay attention--and to dig a...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Truth

Thoughtful About . . . The Truth

I have always believed in the Truth--the kind with a capital T. I reject the idea that it's relative, that there is no Right and Wrong, just "right for me" and "right for you." I believe that this ultimate Truth is part of God. He's the one who determines it, who...

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Thoughtful About . . . Tearing Down

Thoughtful About . . . Tearing Down

I'm never sure how to explain how thoughts coalesce in my brain. Usually, it's topics that keep coming at me from different angles. In this case, those angles are various discussions we've had lately at church, with fellow authors about topics in books, and also about...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Wind

Thoughtful About . . . The Wind

The sunrise down my driveway We live in the mountains. Specifically, the Appalachians in West Virginia. Our home is nestled up against the side of one of these mountains, in a little bit of a valley. It's wooded--the sort of area where it's more remarkable to see open...

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Thoughtful About . . . Happiness and Joy

Thoughtful About . . . Happiness and Joy

This past week, my church's Wednesday night Bible study just began Philippians. Well, we didn't really get much into the book itself; we read the intro from someone's Bible, which said that the book was all about JOY, which is only to be found in Christ, as opposed to...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Magic

Thoughtful About . . . The Magic

Well, I'm back from my writing retreat. My manuscript is complete. A weight has been lifted from my shoulders. And as it eased off, I couldn't help but contemplate about this strange thing that is a creative's mind. The doubts that always plague us. This was the sixth...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Word of God

Thoughtful About . . . The Word of God

What does it mean when we call the Bible the infallible Word of God? This is something my husband and I have been talking about from different angles lately. Something that will probably get some vehement reactions, LOL. But something I really think bears thinking...

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Thoughtful About . . . Fasting

Thoughtful About . . . Fasting

Given that today is Mardi Gras and tomorrow begins Lent with Ash Wednesday, I decided to bump my usual Thursday post up a few days to talk about something relevant to the season. Fasting. I find the modern take on fasting very curious. There are those who do it...

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Thoughtful About . . . Honest Faith

Thoughtful About . . . Honest Faith

Have you ever noticed how often children appear in the Gospels? Have you ever wondered why? Time and again, Jesus not only encourages children to come to Him, He holds them up as the examples of true faith. In Matthew 21, after He's just cleared the temple, the...

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Thoughtful About . . . Romance

Thoughtful About . . . Romance

When I looked down and realized that my normal Thoughtful post this week would be on Valentine's Day...well, it didn't take a genius to realize what my topic ought to be. 😉 But deciding what particular slant I wanted to take on a very general topic proved much more of...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Difference We Can Make

Thoughtful About . . . The Difference We Can Make

When God created the earth, what did He say? That it was good. What do we yearn for at the end of our lives? That He'll say, "Well done, good and faithful servant." Not only in the Bible, but in pretty much every piece of literature, ancient and modern, we can find...

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Thoughtful About . . . Not Just a Laborer

Thoughtful About . . . Not Just a Laborer

This past week in our church Bible study, we were on the well-known parable of the workers in the vineyard. You know the one--where the landowner hired people at the start of the day for an agreed-upon amount. Then throughout the day, he goes back to the marketplace...

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Thoughtful About . . . the Inspiration

Thoughtful About . . . the Inspiration

We serve a gracious God, don't we? Not only has He given us His Son, His Word, but He continues to speak and minister to us today. As a creative, I can tell you in all honesty that there are many days when I just have to squeeze my eyes shut and say, "Give me the...

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The Great Christmas Tree Hunt

The Great Christmas Tree Hunt

Merry Christmas! Everything on the blog this week has been Christmas-themed, as I'm sure you've noticed. 😉 And as a final post before the holidays, I thought I'd just tell you about our little adventure... See, in my family, we get a live tree. If possible, a blue...

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Thoughtful About . . . Not a Flower

Thoughtful About . . . Not a Flower

Many times through the years, I've joked about being a "delicate flower." Generally, this is what I say when there's heavy lifting to be done that I don't want to do, LOL, or when my husband is teasing me and I'm trying to convince him (sort of) to stop. I say it...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Sacrifice of Thanksgiving

Thoughtful About . . . The Sacrifice of Thanksgiving

It's once again that time of year when we set aside time to focus on giving thanks. Thanks to our God for all He has provided. Thanks for all He is. Thanks for all He's made us. It's that time of year when I often pause to remember the start of the American tradition...

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Remember When . . . He Made Us His Own

Remember When . . . He Made Us His Own

I have been adopted by a king. And so have you. I remember when I was in high school, on one of my piano recital days, I was battling nerves by praying and just dwelling on Him. I can still see the church sanctuary in my mind's eye, with the baby grand piano that I'd...

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Thoughtful About . . . Us V. Them?

Thoughtful About . . . Us V. Them?

I believe in Good. I believe in Evil. I believe in absolute truth. I believe that sometimes we land firmly on one side or another of this virtually-eternal war...but only sometimes. I believe that more often than not, we are still in the position of Adam and Eve,...

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Thoughtful About . . . What Is Worth Fighting For?

Thoughtful About . . . What Is Worth Fighting For?

As I'm sure is no secret to you, we live in what's being called an "Outrage Society." People seem to love to get their dander up. To point fingers. To be offended. To declare each other unreasonable, stupid, and declare for all of social media to see that if you think...

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Thoughtful About . . . Honoring (Undeserving) Parents

Thoughtful About . . . Honoring (Undeserving) Parents

The last few weeks, my dad (who happens to be my pastor) has been preaching through the Ten Commandments. He recently covered number five--the first commandment to contain a promise. Now, he had plenty of material to get through with the focus he chose, and he said up...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Purpose of Shame

Thoughtful About . . . The Purpose of Shame

I'm by no means the first person to tackle this subject, and no doubt others have done it better than me. But last week when I wrote about "Actions, Reactions, and Being Better," I had an anonymous comment accusing me of "woman shaming/blaming." Another of those...

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Thoughtful About . . . Actions, Reactions, and Being Better

Thoughtful About . . . Actions, Reactions, and Being Better

One of the reasons I love writing historicals is to show that the heart of humanity has never changed. No matter whether you're talking about ancient Egyptians or modern Americans or anything in between, there are a few things that we will always seek--our dreams, our...

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Thoughtful About . . . Christian Suffering

Thoughtful About . . . Christian Suffering

In a move strange to fiction-loving me, much of my recent reading (or listening, as the case may be) has been of non-fiction. I've already written about my thoughts on the importance of having heroes in our lives, inspired by The Closing of the American Mind by Allen...

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Thoughtful About . . . Why We Need Heroes

Thoughtful About . . . Why We Need Heroes

I've written about literary heroes before. I've written about what we're remembered for and what I feel is so critical about preserving the legacies even of those with whom we don't agree. Amazon But in listening to a book called The Closing of the American Mind and...

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Thoughtful About . . . Lessons from Peter

Thoughtful About . . . Lessons from Peter

We've been reading through Matthew lately, and really digging deep, as we tend to do in our Bible studies. This weekend, we were in Matthew 14--quite a chapter! We learn about the beheading of John, and how Jesus sought some solitude after getting the news, He tried...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Enemy

Thoughtful About . . . The Enemy

For my daily study each morning, I've been reading through a chronological Bible called So That's Why Bible. I love the history and context this Bible gives me--I've never been a huge fan of the "application" style notes in a study Bible, but I've always loved the...

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Thoughtful About . . . Friends

Thoughtful About . . . Friends

Over the weekend, my husband and I took a drive to meet up with some good friends for a dinner, halfway between where we live. We've been trying to do this somewhat regularly, and it's inevitably a wonderful evening. This time, we realized that it's been 18 years...

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Thoughtful About . . . There

Thoughtful About . . . There

We set goals. We work hard. We sweat. We cry. We bleed. We tumble down exhausted. We stretch out our hands, willing our fingers to reach that last . . . single . . . inch. Did we get there? There. The end goal. The place we want to be. There. The thing always just out...

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Thoughtful About . . . New Wine in Old Wineskins

Thoughtful About . . . New Wine in Old Wineskins

There's a passage in Matthew. We all know it. But I admit it always baffled me a little. It's from chapter 9, verses 14-17. 14 Then the disciples of John came to Him, saying, “Why do we and the Pharisees fast often, but Your disciples do not fast?” 15 And...

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Thoughtful About . . . My Writing Retreat, Spring 2018

Thoughtful About . . . My Writing Retreat, Spring 2018

Tuesday afternoon, I pulled back into my driveway after a lovely retreat with Stephanie Morrill, best friend and critique partner extraordinaire. Arriving at our rental house, energetic and ready to go! If you've been hanging around my blog any length of time, you'll...

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Thoughtful About . . . What’s Worthwhile

Thoughtful About . . . What’s Worthwhile

When it comes to how we spend our time, there are good ways and bad ways, right? There are things that we deem worthwhile uses of our time . . . and things we deem not worthwhile. Over the last couple weeks, I've had a couple conversations with my best friend about...

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Thoughtful About . . . Capability

Thoughtful About . . . Capability

I'm busy. This is indisputable fact. I'm writing 6 books in 18 months, I homeschool my kids, I do much of the day-to-day running of WhiteFire Publishing, I design book covers and interior layouts, I cook, I (occasionally) clean, I knit, I'm pianist at my church, I'm a...

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Thoughtful About . . . Creator

Thoughtful About . . . Creator

This past weekend I just began my rotation teaching the kids at my church (being a small church, we alternate who's in with them so that the same person doesn't have the responsibility all the time). I decided to start a 36-week course aimed at tweens and teens (our...

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Thoughtful About . . . Lord of the Nooks and Crannies

Thoughtful About . . . Lord of the Nooks and Crannies

In my church's Wednesday night Bible study, we've been reading through Romans, taking it just a few verses at a time and really digging deep, beneath the easy and accepted answers to try to grasp the subtleties of what Paul is saying. Most recently, we've been in...

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Thoughtful About . . . What We Stand For

Thoughtful About . . . What We Stand For

A year and a half ago, I wrote a post about how, in our churches, we needed to take a stand--not for what we're against, but for what we're for. But as my husband and I were talking a few weeks ago about how to really change the culture, he hit on this again. And I...

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Thoughtful About . . . The Collective

Thoughtful About . . . The Collective

Last Thursday, my family used some Christmas money to attend a hockey game in Pittsburgh--something we've been wanting to do for years. Six years ago, hubby and Xoe went to one while I stayed with Rowyn in the hotel room (because he wasn't quite 4 and had a hard time...

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Thoughtful About…Sales!

Thoughtful About…Sales!

Yup! That's right! I am excited to start offering sales on my books in my personal bookstore. (You can find this on my website HERE.) The Lost Heiress is currently FREE for Kindle on Amazon. So I thought I would give you the opportunity to get the next book in the...

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Thoughtful About – A New Adventure

Thoughtful About – A New Adventure

I totally stole the title inspiration for this blog...from the other person embarking on this adventure with me. 😉 I think she'll forgive me. (Check out her post here)  So, a few weeks ago my husband said, as he has said many a time before, "You need an...

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Thoughtful About . . . Heroes

Thoughtful About . . . Heroes

Whenever I have a new book release, there's always that anxiety about how readers will connect with my characters. Oh, I've had some input by this time. Critique partners, beta readers, editors. And they all have their unique opinions. Their perspectives. As I've been...

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