Happy Thanksgiving!

Happy Thanksgiving!

This week, in celebration of Thanksgiving in America, I’m going to be taking the week off from the blog. My kids and I have the week off from homeschooling, so we’re going to seize the chance to watch some movies, do some reading (and writing, for me) and otherwise relax. I hope everyone has a wonderful, blessed week!
And be sure to come back here next Monday to see what Cyber Monday deals are running in my shop!

Thoughtful About . . . The Sacrifice of Thanksgiving

Thoughtful About . . . The Sacrifice of Thanksgiving

It’s once again that time of year when we set aside time to focus on giving thanks. Thanks to our God for all He has provided. Thanks for all He is. Thanks for all He’s made us.
It’s that time of year when I often pause to remember the start of the American tradition and stand in continual awe at the Pilgrims that first celebrated Thanksgiving on this continent. Who celebrated and gave thanks despite the fact that every single one of them had suffered the cruel death of a loved one in the year that had just passed. That families had been patched together, binding widows to widowers, orphans to parents who had lost children. That the community had chosen to hold steady, to move forward together. To give thanks. Despite the fact that they had so many reasons to mourn. So much grief burdening them. So many obstacles ahead.
When I’m making a list of things to be thankful for, I know what tops mine: my family, my friends, the chance to write, the Church, His Spirit.
But this year, as I’ve spent these last few months contemplating how I can #BeBetter, how I can stop viewing those who have different opinions or beliefs as my opposition or enemy, I feel like I’m being challenged to something new.
In 1 Thessalonians 5:14-18, Paul instructs us (emphasis my own):
14 Now we exhort you, brethren, warn those who are unruly, comfort the fainthearted, uphold the weak, be patient with all. 15 See that no one renders evil for evil to anyone, but always pursue what is good both for yourselves and for all.
16 Rejoice always, 17 pray without ceasing, 18 in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.

Everything. That isn’t always easy. But God also calls us to offer our praise even when it’s hard. Even when it’s a sacrifice. Sometimes, thanksgiving is the same. Sometimes, He asks us to take a step back from the emotion that holds us captive–the pain, the anger, the grief…the happiness, the Joy, the victory–and see things through His eyes. To see that even when we feel loss, He is still at work. Even when death steals from us, He gives us life. Even when we’re prisoners, He offers freedom of the soul. Even when we cannot see the reason, He holds it all in His hands.
But not only that. The things we consider victory and Joy cause pain and fear for others. God cares about that, too, doesn’t He? He loves those who are confused about their identity…He loves those who fear bigotry so much that they extend the definition into things I don’t feel it should include. He loves those who think my faith is dangerous. Does He want us laughing in Joy when we score a “win”…or praying for those who are hurt by it?
This year, I’m going to be spending my Thanksgiving deliberately thanking God for the things and people that cause me stress. I’m going to thank Him for the people who don’t believe as I do–because they have opinions that challenge me, and it’s through challenging each other that we achieve intellectual honesty. I’m going to thank Him for what I’ve lost, because sometimes it takes stripping me of the things I cling to for me to really see Who matters. I’m going to thank Him for every single thing I hope changes in the year to come, because the fact that it’s here in my life means I need to learn from it.
We are all dealt hard blows. We all suffer. We all fear. It’s what we do with it that makes a difference. And if our “doing” is to praise God, to thank Him for the loss, for the pain, for the hurt, for the difficulty… Well then, we’re not going to be seeking revenge. We’re not going to be wallowing in those emotions–we’re going to be wallowing in Him.
And that, my friends, can change the world. One person at a time.
Next week I will be celebrating Thanksgiving and taking the week off from blogging, but be sure to swing by here on Monday, November 26th to see what Cyber Monday sales I’ll be offering!
It’s My Birthday!

It’s My Birthday!

As you may know, my next novel, An Hour Unspent, releases in just THREE weeks! I can not wait for you all to meet Barclay and Evelina. In fact, I am so excited about this story, that I wanted to give you a sneak peek. So, MY gift to YOU today is the PDF for the first chapter of An Hour Unspent!!! Yay! And in case you were wondering, YES! It is, in fact, my 29th birthday…again…

Keep your eyes on alert for my next newsletter. I have an exciting contest and giveaways coming to your inbox on September 4th (release day). There will be giveaways for my US AND International Readers.


Companion Guide Coming Soon

Watches Part 1

Don’t forget to check out my BLOG on Wednesdays for the historical background of the story. After release day, these posts will be compiled into a companion guide in an easily-downloaded PDF. Perfect for readers groups or your own curiosity.


An Hour Unspent

An Hour Unspent Sneak Peek

This sneak peek is exclusively for my newsletter group! If you want to access this sneak peek, sign up for my newsletter and you will receive the link in your welcome email!
You can pre-order a signed copy of An Hour Unspent on my website HERE.

Giveaway

If you missed it, I also have a book coming out in September through Guidepost. This is a book that you can ONLY purchase from Guidepost. BUT, I am going to give away THREE copies to my newsletter subscribers! Sign up for my newsletter and the entry form will be in your welcome email! Fill out the form and I will draw 3 winners on August 21st. Giveaway open to US addresses only. Void where prohibited.


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Now, go eat some cake!


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Happy Independence Day!

Happy Independence Day!

Wishing you a safe and fun Fourth, full of picnics and fireworks and reflections on the bravery that the Patriots embodied to make the United States a reality and not just a dream.
My family will enjoy a picnic and then watch the fireworks from my sister’s porch. Though I think our favorite celebration was the year we hilariously went to Niagara Falls for the Fourth. Because nothing says American Independence like going to Canada! LOL
Do you have any special plans for the holiday?

Spring Break!

Spring Break!

As my family busily celebrates Holy Week and Resurrection Day, I’m going to be taking a couple days off blogging. That will only affect today and Monday, and you’ll see me back here on Wednesday with a Remember When.
I hope you all enjoy your Resurrection Day activities with your families and churches! I’d love to hear about how you celebrate, if you haven’t shared yet on one of my other posts this week.

A Stray Drop of Blood will be on sale in my shop starting tomorrow. This book takes place around the death and resurrection of Jesus. You can snag your SIGNED copy HERE.

Don’t forget to submit your entries for the Hair Contest by Saturday night! You can find more information HERE.

PLOT TWIST!!!

I am also super excited to let you know that there has been an addition to the prizes for the hair contest!!!! A $20 credit to Lilla Rose! A HUGE “Thank You!” to Myra for the donation! You can see a few of their products pictured below…Pretty appropriate for the contest I think! You can follow Myra’s Newsletter HERE. And join her group on Facebook HERE.


And don’t forget about the rest of the amazing prizes!!!
Remember When . . . Jesus Celebrated the Passover?

Remember When . . . Jesus Celebrated the Passover?

Tomorrow is the day many churches celebrate as Maundy Thursday–the Passover Thursday, the day Jesus shared the Last Supper with His disciples. Does your church celebrate this day with a meal?

Growing up in a United Methodist Church, we would have a Maundy Thursday dinner. It went something like this: ladies who signed up to help would bring a pot of beef stew. They were all mixed together into one giant pot, which made a rather tasty concoction. Plates of fruit and cheese were set out. Someone made unleavened bread. The pastor read through the Last Supper portion of one of the Gospels. There was optional foot-washing. The end.
After college, friends of ours had their pastor, who was a Messianic Jew, lead our Bible study through a Messianic Passover Seder. And it was quite simply, amazing. The actual seder meal, with the actual Jewish traditions included, shed so much light on that portion of the Gospels! Suddenly everything Jesus said took on new, fuller meaning. His promises and claims are at specific points in the meal where He demonstrates that He is fulfilling the Jewish law, the promises of the Prophets. If you’ve never participated in one of these, I can’t recommend it enough!
When Rowyn was a baby, we decided to do one at our church. I just found a free service guide online and printed it out, and we bumbled our way through. It was great, if not so great as the one led by someone who knew what he was doing.  But we decided to do it again in 2012 and have made it an annual event. 
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Two years ago, my church decided to invest in actual Passover Haggadah booklets–these are little pamphlet style books for each person to have beside their plate. They have all the responsive readings and explain what each element of the Seder plate is for. Designed for English-speaking Christians, these little books have been a very welcome addition to our meal and are much easier to follow than the print-outs I’d found before. (We found them here.)

For our church, this meal has become a critical part of Holy Week. It’s when we focus on the history and how our Lord played into it. It’s when we remember the roots that He came from. It’s when we partake of a meal like He did with His followers.
Funny story. Two years ago, my mom was sick and couldn’t come to the meal. But my husband rigged some cameras in our fellowship hall and broadcast the event, and she watched from home. Now, there’s a portion of the meal where one of the kids is to get up and open the door, symbolically welcoming Elijah. When we got to this part, my mom’s door blew open. She thought it was pretty cool and texted us and commented on the website to tell us. But when she really got goosebumps was later in the service, when someone closes the door–and her door blew shut again all on its own. Just one of those little things that made her fully aware that she was part of us, even if too sick that day to join us physically. 
This year, I’ll be again in charge of the Seder plate. I’ll be roasting eggs, making the apple clay (a mixture of raw apples, almonds, grape juice, and cinnamon I toss into the blender), baking unleavened bread, getting out the lamb bones I have in the freezer to roast, arranging bitter greens, spooning out horseradish, and mixing up salt water. All to make real to our church, as it’s made real to the Jewish people every year during Passover, how God delivered His people from slavery in Egypt all those years ago…and how Christ delivered us from slavery to sin on the cross.